Thursday, July 29, 2010

Safe and sound in Ghana!




We made it safely to Ghana! We got here at 12:50 in the afternoon Ghana time. It's 5 hours ahead of Nashville time so 4 hours ahead of Michigan. We had smooth flights - everything was on time and we had an all night flight so we tried to sleep on the plane. We did sleep but it's always less restful than a normal nights sleep since you're not in a bed. Jess and I had an open seat in between us so that made it nice. We were greeted by a lovely woman named Dorcas who had a sign and was very easy to find. She led us to our transportation and we stopped and picked up some lunch she ordered for us. We then went to the Guesthouse to check in and drop off our stuff. Then we walked a few blocks to the house where she is staying and we ate the lunch she got us - chicken sandwiches and fries and hamburgers and fries. A pretty American first meal in Ghana;) We hung out there for a few hours as she told us all about Ghana. And then her friend came to meet us - a wonderful Ghanaian who has adopted a young girl. She brought her adopted daughter with her - her name is Nicole and she was precious. Meme (the mom) was telling us how the culture here doesn't adopt nor do they understand why she would want to. But she said it has been an incredible blessing. She is about to adopt 2 more children - a little baby girl and a baby boy. We encouraged her about how wonderful adoption is and how our hearts are all for it and I think it helped her to be around others who understood. And we got to talk to her daughter - she's 7 years old. So adorable. I wish I could upload pictures.
We had a dinner of rice and chicken with a red sauce and some really yummy fresh pineapple. And wouldn't you know it - we got back to our room and I looked down and my ankles are crazy swollen. It's been happening everytime lately. I think all the sitting (for 10 hours) on the plane followed by lots of walking and humidity or something. I don't know. But I'm praying they go down tonight while we're sleeping. We are going to bed soon - it's only 7:30 pm here and way early back home but we're tired enough to sleep and we have to get up at 4am to go to the airport to fly to Tamale.
My phone isn't working the way the Sprint folks said it would - it's letting me make phone calls but says there is no data access and it's not letting me text which is the main thing I was hoping to be able to do since it's 50 cents to text and a whopping $2.29 a minute to call. Thankfully, my roommate Jess did bring her laptop and this first night there is free Wifi at the Guesthouse. Not sure how much access I'll have after this but maybe it'll be more than I thought. We shall see.
The team is great and everyone is feeling good. Thanks for all the prayers. We are excited to be here and to go up to Tamale in Northern Ghana tomorrow to meet up with Cheryl and her team - we'll be with them the rest of the trip. She's been a huge blessing and has arranged everything for us - I'm so thankful!
I hope to update y'all soon!

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Ghana

Myself and 3 other team members leave for the first ever Visiting Orphans mission trip to Ghana, Africa. I am beyond excited! It has long been a dream of mine to go to Africa. We are meeting up with a wonderful ministry called International Hope and Heritage and our little team will join with their team to minister to orphans and widows in remote mud hut villages in Ghana. Please pray for safety, travel mercies and that in all things the Lord will be with us and work through us.
Just got an email from one of our team members that she woke up today with a headache and throwing up. Please pray for her (Jess) - that she would be well and able to go tomorrow. That the enemy would not steal any of what the Lord has for us to do.
I hope to be able to update my blog from my phone so I'm testing it out now. I won't be able to post pictures probably until I get back. Stay tuned.
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Saturday, June 19, 2010

Being Changed in Haiti

On Monday, June 7 - we started our ministry in Haiti. Our first stop was an orphanage at Delmas 19 with 43 children that live there and at least 20 more that come daily for school. When we got there, they were in the middle of school. We had called in advance to let them know when we would arrive so they were aware of our visit and were completely fine with us taking over. I think it was a nice and much needed break for the teachers. Before the earthquake, they had a lot less children in the orphanage and the local kids who came for school were paying a tuition which was then used to pay the teachers. Since the earthquake, there has been much loss and very little money and the kids who come for school are for the most part, no longer able to pay this tuition. So their teaching staff has dwindled and they are having a hard time providing for the kids. This orphanage is in great need. 
We arrived and the kids were super quiet, just staring at us. We had Sylvestre with us to translate and we asked the director's wife if we could do art projects with the kids - she said "of course". So we went to the bus to get the bag of supplies. Each person on the team took a different age group and project and Sylvestre helped get the kids to sit down in groups by age. One group decorated foam visors, another colored pictures, some made necklaces with beads and yarn. Sally, Kay and Ashley set up a little area where they had a little medical clinic and started seeing the kids there who have been sick. There was one little boy in particular that was not doing very well. Sally said he had malaria and was also anemic. He was pretty much non-responsive. Unfortunately, we hadn't brought anything that was for malaria so we were limited in how we could help him. Sally had Sylvestre translated and explained to the director's wife Claujine that this child needed to go to the hospital or clinic. Claujine's elderly mother had a pretty bad ankle injury and the team helped her with that. There were some hair/skin conditions they treated, some wounds to bandage and rashes. And several kids had been having stomach problems. 
Claujine took myself and another team member, Laura on a tour of where the living quarters were. This orphanage stood in the middle of one of the worst hit areas we visited that week and buildings on all sides of it were leveled by the earthquake and yet, this orphanage building still stands and doesn't look like it was even damaged. From what I could gather - they are still uneasy about being inside though - which is why they have school outside and almost all the beds and such are not in this building. The backyard houses 2 tents where kids sleep and what looks like a little shed that has several doors and inside each one was a very worn bed for the kids. The mattresses where in bad condition and one of the metal bunk beds didn't have a mattress, just a few wool blankets on top of the wire frame - it looked like someone even slept there. These conditions were heart breaking. My camera battery had died at this point but Laura took lots of pictures with hopes that we could get new beds for them. 
My thoughts are that this orphanage really needs a lot of ongoing assistance. It would be ideal to partner them with a church or two in the US that could provide monthly support to help them feed these children and provide better living conditions for them. We'd need to make sure there was someone on the ground in Haiti to make sure the funds were used properly and for what they were designated for. But wow - what a difference a partnership like that could make. The children there are precious and they need help. I'm praying we can help bring it. We are in the planning process of sending a team back to Haiti this fall and would love to find some potential church partners who would go with Visiting Orphans on this trip to help. So much need everywhere. I am still processing all that we saw. 

We had several hours at the Delmas 19 orphanage with those precious children. I got to hold a beautiful baby girl named Mona Lisa who absolutely stole my heart. She is the cutest thing! And all the kids love her - they call her "Mo Mo" and they would come up and make her smile and laugh and you could tell they look out for her. At one point, Barbara was holding a child that fell fast asleep so comfortable in her arms. Several other team members had the same thing happen. One of the sleeping children was carried by another child to the back yard and placed carefully in their bed. It was so precious to see the kids looking after each other. Yet, made it so apparent how fast these kids have had to grow up and much they have had to adapt to in the absence of parents. 

Many of the children we saw at orphanages that week were only recently orphaned because of losing parents in the earthquake. It's hard to even fathom what these kids have been through. And yet, they still play and smile and laugh. The Haitian people are so strong. And what we discovered daily on our visit was that instead of giving up in the midst of pain, loss and poverty like we can never fully understand - they aren't blaming God, they are praising God that they survived and for what they do have. In fact, what we heard time and time again from those we met in Haiti was that the earthquake caused many people to turn to God. I know we didn't hear about it on the news here but there is a youtube video about this - t several days after the earthquake, the president called for the people to fast and pray and cry out to God. Thousands upon thousands of people filled the rubble-covered streets and did exactly that. It just shows me that God truly can work all things together for good. And how precious that in their pain, He is drawing the people of Haiti to Him - ministering to their hearts and giving them a new hope. It blows me away. He is so good! And the Haitian people are truly resilient and strong. 

After we left the orphanage, we then traveled to Delmas 31 to visit Christian Light Ministries, which is a school run by a wonderful American woman named Ms. Sherrie who has been living in Haiti doing this for a very long time. She has that school run like a well oiled machine. And it was like night and day from where we had just come from in just seeing how a ministry can thrive with help from the US in the form of partnerships. In fact, Ms. Sherrie was about to venture to the US for a period of time and told our medical team to take any medical supplies they thought we might need. And the Lord is so good because she had malaria meds for that little boy we saw earlier at the orphanage. We were so happy. And we decided to head straight back there before heading home for the day and deliver those meds. While we were at Ms. Sherrie's - we took a tour about a block away where her former orphanage stood. The entire back section of it had fallen (see photo). Ms. Sherrie was in the bedroom that is now laying in a pile of rubble of several stories of what was the building. When the shaking started, she started to run out and was pushed out into the hallway by the force. Most of the kids went running out in that direction too - and that was the part of the building that survived. The child of one of her staff did not make it out but miraculously most everyone else did, including Ms. Sherrie. She said that even in the midst of it - she felt a peace and did not feel fearful. Totally the Lord. 

When we were walking there, Sally noticed a little boy with a bad infection all over the side of his face. She asked the mother to bring him to Ms. Sherrie's so she could take a look. She did and it turned out - there was some kind of a winged bug wedged way into his ear and it had caused an infection that was spreading to the outside of his face. That little boy was so tough - he did not cry but squirmed quite a bit as his mother held him and Sally tried her best to get that bug out with tweezers. Unfortunately it was not successful - it was too far in there and was just coming out in pieces. So she tried to flush it out with warm water - that didn't work either and he was really unhappy at this point. Sally gave the mom cream for the infection, an oral medicine to take for it and some drops to put in his ear every day. Sylvestre translated all the instructions and we wrote it down too so she wouldn't forget. I truly hope that bug came out and that infection cleared up. It just amazes me the things that when let go can do such awful things to our bodies. And how simple things we take for granted here are simply not available to so much of the world. The need is great. We need more workers! 

While at Ms. Sherrie's, Ashley was looking at a little girls arm that had been burned at a young age and was hardly useable. She took a lot of pictures of it and showed the girl some stretches to do. And since being home, Ashley has been hard at work finding a surgeon to operate on her arm. She found one and is currently working on setting up the logistics of making that happen. 

I love going on these trips and seeing what the Lord does in the hearts of each team member. It changes lives. And you can't return home unchanged. You just can't. And you also can't return home and ever be content to do nothing. Seeing what you see around the world changes you. It may break your heart. It may be heavy. But it's for the better - because it's that broken heart that propels you to do more, to get outside your comfort zone and reach out to those that so desperately need your help. 

We left Ms. Sherrie's on Monday and drove back to the orphanage at Delmas 19 and our medical team went in and gave medicine to that little boy who was so sick with malaria. And it was totally the Lord who orchestrated the fact that we went there first, saw that need and then happened to go to Ms. Sherrie's a few hours later who would give us the medicine needed to care for that little guy. And a few days later, we went back and that little boy was doing so much better! Praise God. It's all about his schedule for our week and He truly orchestrated all the details. We just had to be willing to go with His lead and be flexible to where He would take us. Not having a full itinerary or plan in advance was most certainly outside my comfort zone - but I think it was always supposed to be that way. Mission trips are all about getting outside that comfort zone and letting God change you. 

To see more of my photos from Haiti, go to this link:
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Monday, June 14, 2010

Haiti day 2 - it's all about flexibility

We woke up Sunday morning and got ready for church. Our ride was supposed to pick us up at 9am to take us wherever we needed to go - they were late but arrived at 9:30. I thought it'd be a big van or bus that would fit 12. To my surprise, it was a tiny SUV that really comfortably sat 4 and yet we had to do two trips with 7 people in each (including the driver). Needless to say it was hot and we were squeezed in like sardines. Our team was amazing - they were such troopers and never complained. The flexibility of the trip had begun! Turns out, the bigger vehicle was unavailable that morning and the driver we had been told was picking us up didn't - his sons came instead. Super nice guys but they were late and then by the time they took the first group to the church and came back for us in the 2nd group - we were an hour and a half late for church. We met up with some missionaries at church that Bethany (our other co-leader) knew and decided to have lunch with them. They had a big flat bed pickup truck that could fit 12 of us in the back so we asked if there was any way they could take us home so we could all ride together. Our drivers had been waiting for us while we were in church because it was far away and they didn't want to go all the way home. Then when we came out of church - they had a flat tire so they had to change that. We told them to just meet us at the restaurant. By the time they got there, the missionaries had agreed to take us back to the Guest House and we were able to let our drivers go for the day. The missionaries also recommended a driver they use often who had a big bus that seats at least 20. We met up with Bethany's friend Sylvestre who was to be our translator and he recommended the same driver the missionaries recommended and he called and negotiated a cheaper daily rate for us than what the other people charged. So we used this other transportation for the rest of the week and were glad that we did - it was a big bus with AC (sometimes it blew out cold air), a very nice driver and room for all our supplies. 
Anyway, the church we went to was packed full and the worship was amazing. We caught about 1/2 hour of it since I was in the 2nd crew of people. We stuck around and met the pastor and his wife and chatted with these other missionaries. We then went to lunch with them at a place called Hot & Ready that they recommended as safe for us to eat and delicious. Most of us had hamburgers and fries - so yummy. Some had pasta or sandwiches. It was really good. After that, a young man named David took us back to the Guest House in the flat bed truck. It was a bumpy ride, pretty hot and lots of traffic along the way but we were thankful to all be together. We also were thankful for the connection with him and his team because we decided to go on Wed to a clinic and orphanage they help run. After lunch, which took quite a while, we had an adventurous ride through the city streets on the way back to the Guest House. Got lots of pictures and had lots of laughs as we talked about our squeeze in the SUV's that morning and adventure at the airport the day before. 
We relaxed at the Guest House once we got there. Bethany and I made phone calls to try and plan for the week ahead as far as what our schedule might be. We made a plan for Monday and the team unpacked all our supplies and organized them into piles for the week. The Guest House was so accommodating and let us spread out our stuff all over the place. What a Godsend they are! 
They made us a lovely chicken and rice dinner with rolls and green beans and the best ice cold rasberry tea ever. So nice to have a home cooked meal every night and to be able to eat together at the awesome big long dining table. We had a time of prayer and planning after dinner, took cold showers and went to bed early to rest up for a full day on Monday.


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On our way to Haiti

On June 4th, Barbara Crossman and I departed Nashville to begin our journey as co-leaders of the Visiting Orphans Haiti Mission trip. We left Nashville incredibly early in the morning and flew to Atlanta and then on to Fort Lauderdale. Our flight left at 5:30 am and we were both sure that the airport would be like a ghost town that early so we only went 1 hour before. We almost missed our flight - it was the busiest I've ever seen the Nashville airport. The wonderful guy at the ticket counter let me check in for Barbara as she parked the car cause we only had 6 minutes to check in. The security line was long and then my bag had to be run through twice. Barbara said "I'm going on to tell them we're here and to wait". I got my bag a minute or so later and looked at my ticket to find the gate number. It was early and I knew it was a letter and then the gate number was 6. Well, I glanced at my ticket and saw C6 so I went walking super quick to that gate. Got there and realized there was no one at that gate. Looked at my ticket again to realize I was looking at my seat number instead of the gate number - seat number C6, gate number B6. What are the chances it was the same number? I mean, really. So at this point - I literally ran from gate C to gate B to catch the plane. As I'm running, I hear my phone ringing - knowing it's Barbara but not wanting to stop and answer. I come running down the isle toward the gate and I see her waiving at me. The lady was literally about to close the gate and Barbara told her "I see her" and kept her waiting for one more minute for me. So I barely made it and boy, what a way to wake you up at 5:30 am. I was sweating and out of breath. Whew. 
So then, the plane didn't depart on time cause we were in a long line of planes taxiing out. So we got to Atlanta late and were pretty much running to catch our next flight. And of course, it was not in the same terminal - it was a train ride and 3 terminals down. We approach the gate running and saw a line of people and started to slow down. Then we hear the gate attendee say "if you are on this flight, you better get moving - we're about to close the door." We never did figure out why the line was there but it was obviously not for our flight. We barely made it. But we did. Thank God!
We arrived in Fort Lauderdale, Florida at 10:30 am. After several times running that morning and a crazy busy few weeks leading up to the trip - Barbara and I had a much needed day of rest in Florida before the rest of the team arrived that night. We stayed at a lovely hotel and after we got picked up by the shuttle, checked into our rooms and changed clothes - we took a trolley down to the beach and finally relaxed for the first time in weeks. It was such a blessing and so what we needed before heading on to Haiti with a team of 12. We had a few hours at the beach to really share our stories and get to know each other. We'd met lots of times but hadn't really gotten to know each other. This was a great way to start the trip. Right as we decided we'd had enough sun and we wanted to go grab something to drink at a restaurant near the beach, it started to rain. It was a really great thunderstorm. What a perfect day. 
One of the girls on the team, Noelle, arrived around 7:30 pm so we waited for her and then went back down near the beach to grab some dinner at Bubba Gump's Shrimp restaurant. Yummy! 
I had left notes in each persons room to meet us downstairs for breakfast and team meeting the next morning at 8:30 am and that we were taking a shuttle to the airport at 10 am. That worked out well because they all got in quite late. Met the whole team of amazing women Saturday morning in the Hyatt lobby and our journey to Haiti began. 
We took the shuttle filled with all of our luggage filled with supplies to the airport. And we found favor with the guys at curbside check-in who checked us all in together and made sure we had everything we needed. That day, a brand new rule about not checking boxes was implemented (how would we have known) and 3 of our bags were big boxes filled with medical supplies. We waited about 45 minutes while one of the guys worked hard to get the airline to allows those boxes to go. At one point, we were told we'd have to transfer all the contents into big bags we'd have to buy from them for $35 each. And we had already paid $120 for checking those 3 boxes and 1 suitcase from Nashville to Florida. We prayed and waited as this guy from curbside went to bat for us. He talked to many managers and explained we were going to help orphans in Haiti and we were so thankful when he came back over and said he finally got it worked out and this time, they would allow it. We will know for next time that we cannot bring boxes but thank the Lord we didn't have to pay extra or transfer contents for this trip. So much favor on this trip! What a blessing. 
We had gotten to the airport plenty early so it was no big deal that all of this took a lot of time. I was so glad we opted on going that early. We made it to our gate in plenty of time and our flight left about 2:15pm. Our other co-leader Bethany Haley flew in that morning and met us at the gate to head to Haiti with us right before departure. Our whole team was together and we were on our way. 
We arrived in Port au Prince, Haiti at 3:15 pm Central time. We got through security and were getting our bags when I looked over and saw a gentleman waiting inside by the door with a sign that said Visiting Orphans. Praise God - we had found someone to direct us to our ride. The place we were staying - The Heartline Guest House - was there to pick us up. So we found this guy and headed out the door with him and into pure chaos. We were not quite expecting the mob scene we encountered and mind you, we didn't quite know where we were going and who was with the Guest House crew. So it was a little crazy trying to squeeze 12 people with tons of luggage through a huge crowd of people, many of whom were trying to grab our bags and take them for us with hopes of getting money and trying to sell us stuff. It was crazy and I was trying to get through while also making sure our whole team made it through. Chris, who runs the guest house, walks up and starts grabbing bags. I knew what he looked like from the website but the team didn't and they were like "who is this guy taking our bags?" It is hard to describe the craziness of trying to get through that crowd. We made it to their truck in tact. Noelle got shoved by a policeman chasing a guy and that was a bit scary. Thankfully she wasn't hurt. When we all finally got in the truck - we breathed a sigh of relief. Whew! Welcome to Haiti. 
We were taken about 30 minutes away (with traffic) to the Heartline Guest House which is an amazing place to stay and such a safe haven for us to come home to at the end of each day. So thankful we found this place and they had room for us. We didn't plan anything for that night - we just hung out there, unpacked, spent some time in prayer and and prepared for the week. 



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Monday, April 19, 2010

Our final 2 days in China

Thursday morning, we were meeting in the hotel lobby in Beijing to head to the Great Wall of China. This was kind of funny - there were no clocks in the rooms but Marsha had brought a little alarm clock. Well we're up and getting ready and taking our time and there's a knock at the door - our clock says it's 8:15. But Bella is standing there and inquiring if we're ok since no one has seen us yet that morning. We're confused, they're confused. And I said "what do you mean? It's 8:15. I thought we were meeting at 9". To which she replies "It's 9:05 right now". I ask if she's joking and wala - she's not. Apparently the clock got changed somewhere in transition from Chifeng to Beijing and it was much later than we thought. Not a good feeling considering I was still in my pj's - hadn't even started to get ready. But, I can be fast cause I'm kind of used to pushing snooze till the last possible minute at home. So I threw on my cloths, put my hair in a pony tail and headed down to eat. Frank said we could have time to eat which I was very happy about - cause after a week in Chifeng with a rather interesting breakfast buffet - I was super excited about a more Americanized buffet at this hotel. Marsha and I were ready in about 10 minutes, ate in about 5 and we hit the road by 9:30. And we had ourselves a good laugh about the whole thing. I guess if it was going to happen - we picked the best day cause we had all day for sightseeing so we weren't in any huge hurry.

Traffic was still pretty bad even at that time in the morning. I think it took us a little over an hour to get there - we went to a less touristy part of the Great Wall. I honestly had little idea of what it'd be like - it was beautiful!!! I loved it. Much moreso than the Temple of Heaven or Forbidden City (we went there on Thursday). The mountains were gorgeous. We decided to climb the section to the left of the parking lot which Lily later told us was far more steep and difficult than the section to the right. We hiked up some seriously tall steps - many of which were up to our knees. It was a workout. But quite envigorating. Me, Kara, Sammye and Bella decided if we came all this way - we were going to the top. So we trekked on quite a bit past the rest of the team. Lily ended up heading up too - I think she was worried about us. At one point I said "do you think we're crazy?" and without hesitation she says "yes, I think you're crazy." We all laughed. Lily is the best - she has such a sweet spirit - so energetic, so positive and you can tell she loves her job. She was taking pictures with just as much excitement as the rest of us on this trip. She was great with the kids. And she took excellent care of us - the hotels were great, the food she ordered for us was awesome and she would even try it first to make sure. The common phrase we'd hear after she'd try a bite was "very nice, not too spicey". So that became our response everytime someone said "very nice" - we'd all say "not to spicey". So if you see us commenting that on each others blogs or facebook - now you'll know the inside story on that:)

Took lots of pictures at the Great Wall and when we made it to the top - the 4 of us were by ourselves up there and we decided the fitting thing to do was to sing a worship song. How can you not when you're in the midst of the beauty of the mountains God has created! The view was amazing. We sang two verses of Amazing Grace and a little bit of Mighty To Save - with very limited singing voices because we were so winded from the climb. Very cool experience.

After we left there, we had lunch nearby - it was very nice, not too spicey:) We then headed back to our hotel in Beijing where Jenny, our correspondent from America World and Mr. Shi from China Swan - our in-country travel agency met with me to discuss future trips. That was really awesome to be able to put a face to their names and to be able to chat with them in person. I was sure to let them know how wonderful we think Lily is and how great our trip has been. I also shared with them how impressed we were with the orphanage in Chifeng. They are so loving with the kids and take such great care of them - it was wonderful to see. It was hard to leave but it really helped knowing that the kids would be well taken care of. It was really nice orphanage. We were all really impressed. And they were so welcoming to us and so appreciative of us coming and of the gifts we were able to get them. The directors just truly genuinely care for the kids. It's like a family there and that made us all happy to see. I cannot say enough good things about it. I hope I get to go back again to see the kids and all those that work there. It was an amazing trip.

After my meeting with Jenny and Mr. Shi - the rest of the team met up downstairs and we went out for Peking Duck dinner. I was thinking that was the meal - Peking Duck and some rice but no... it was almost as much food as every other night and THEN they brought out the Peking Duck. We were so stuffed. And it was yummy. Great meal!

We were pretty tired after that. We walked back to the hotel, stopped at a grocery store on the way to get some candy and chocolate and then crashed pretty much the moment we got to our hotel.

Thursday was our last day - our flight didn't leave until 9pm so we had the morning and part of the afternoon to sight see. So we went to the Forbidden City - it was neat to see but definitely wasn't as much of a highlight as the Great Wall was. We then went to lunch and after that, decided to go shopping at another one of those markets where you can bargain. We had about an hour there. I got a Chinese silk robe for only 100 yen - talked her down from 800 - she didn't want to go that low but that was all I had left - she eventually took it and I was so excited. Next time we have mission Sunday at church - I can wear it over top of jeans and a tshirt. Fun! Everyone else got their last minute items and gifts for those back home and after we were done - we headed to the airport. Lily got us Pizza Hut to eat in the van on the way there - not bad but not as much like home as we hoped. One had shrimp, crab, squid and stuff on it. Toppings were a bit unusual but we ate it and were satisfied. We checked in 3 hours early like you're supposed to with international flights and Lily stayed with us until security check. Then we had to say goodbye to her. We were all sad to say goodbye and she looked sad too - I think she started to cry. We love Lily - we will definitely be keeping in touch. Now I know why all of our past teams that have had her request her the next time. She's so great.

Our flight to LAX left about 9pm China time - it is a 12 hour flight. We arrived in LA at 6pm their time. Most of us started getting a sore throat that day so that made for a bit uncomfortable time but nothing too bad. Most of us were able to sleep almost the whole way. I think I slept on and off for about 11 of the 12 hours. Once we got to LA, we had a 5 hour layover. We had to go through customs and security, get our bags and then go to a different terminal to recheck them in for our flights home. We were able to get our baggage free since we were connecting internationally - so that was a blessing. 4 of us were flying to Atlanta and 3 to Detroit and then on to our individual cities. We ate California Pizza Cafe in LA - so yummy. And so excited to be able to pray for our food in public! We said goodbye to the 3 Indy girls when we boarded our flight to Atlanta and myself, Frank, Bella and Sammye got on. They all got to sit together - I was separate but sat next to a really nice guy who had a heart for adoption too. I told him about the VO website:) It was almost midnight in LA when we left - we got to Atlanta at 6:30 am Eastern Time. I left for Nashville at 7:30 am ET and got to Nashville at 7:30 am Central Time. So many different time zones. I was so wiped out, as I'm sure was the rest of the team, by the time we got home. I think it was like 24 or 26 hours travel time total with layovers and stuff. But totally worth it!

It was a great trip - the whole team was so fun to travel with and so great with the kids. I just loved our time together there. And I loved the kids so much. I hope I get to go again next year.

If you're interested in going - we still have several more China teams this summer and fall with space available. Check out www.visitingorphans.org.


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Saturday, April 17, 2010

Saying goodbye

Tuesday was our final day in Chifeng. We got up and went to the orphanage to pick up the director to take him shopping with the orphanage donation money some of the team members had collected. Sammye was not feeling well at all so she stayed behind to rest. We had to fly back to Beijing Tuesday evening so we were praying she'd feel better by then. She stayed at the hotel and went back to sleep, the rest of us went shopping. We first stopped at a store and were told to stay in the van - Lily said they were going in cause the director wanted to get something for us. We totally didn't want them to buy us anything but knew it'd offend them not to let them. As it turned out, they bought a CD that has songs from the night before about "the Grasslands" on it. Lily made us each a copy of a few of the songs before we left - neat! That'll be fun to listen to and reminisce. That was a perfect gift. Then we went to a department store with multiple stories. We had just over 5000 yen left - we were able to get them 3 washing machines (see photo of us poising by one) and 4 microwaves. The store even threw in 4 microwave dishes for free. The director was so appreciative and excited. We were excited that the money went that far. And that we were able to not only pay for the kids at the park, at KFC, take several kids out to Chinese dinner the next night and also get them such useful items for the orphanage. Totally awesome!
After shopping, we dropped the director and microwaves off at the orphanage and went to lunch. We then loaded up our luggage in the van, our driver took it to the orphanage, unloaded it and then came back to get us. We then went to the orphanage to see the kids one last time and say our goodbyes. We started in the baby room - we got to spend about 45 minutes in there. As soon as we walked in, they were running to the door to greet us and were all pointed at the wall with excitement. We had taken some of the best photos of the trip of us with them and printed them out at a local photo shop. Lily and the director made a great collage for each room of these photos and hung them up. The kids were totally excited to show it to us. They loved it. Jordan was sitting at the table in her usual spot with her mouth stuffed full of cheese puffs. All the kids had a mouth full when we came in. I greeted all the kids and gave them hugs. They put Jordan in the walker - this was the first time I had seen her in there. I was interested to see if she might be able to walk or not - it was hard to tell when she was sitting - it looked like her toes were curled under and since with her arms - her elbows don't really bend - I didn't know if her knees did. But they seem to and she was getting around pretty good in that walker. Shortly before we were needing to go - I went up to her and put my arms out to see if she wanted me to pick her up. She just looked at me so I put my arms down and waited a second. Then I did it again and she put her arms up toward me which totally melted my heart. YAY - she let me pick her up again. I got to hold her for about 20 minutes. Then they came to tell us it was time to say goodbye and move on to the next room. I so didn't want to say goodbye but knew I had to. I spoke quietly to Jordan and prayed blessing over her again and then handed her to one of the older girls who helps out there. I kissed her head and say goodbye. And I went around and said goodbye to all the kids. And I kept waiving to Jordan as I walked out. And as soon as that door closed, the water works came. I needed a moment so I stepped aside and waiting a few minutes before moving on to the next room - sometimes you just need to cry. It was hard to walk out of that room and say goodbye. The others had a hard time too. We each had a certain kid or a few kids that we fell in love with specifically and had a hard time leaving. One of the little guys that Sammye fell in love with was so cute - he was just snuggling right up to her - the picture of them face to face is one of my favorites. And the other picture of him holding on to her legs - he didn't want her to go and was holding on to her legs as she tried to go out. He even tried coming out the door after her. So cute and so sad. I know she wanted to bring him home.
After we sort of collected ourselves, we went into the special needs room to say goodbye to those kids. There were lots of hugs and smiles. We had a short amount of time with them and I don't think they understood that our goodbye was any more than it had been the previous days where they'd just see us again the next day. Which may be better. Goodbyes are hard. Got a great picture of Christine hugging a few of the girls. So precious.
We then went downstairs to try and catch the school kids as they got home from school. We had to head to the airport shortly after. We decided we were too full from lunch and didn't need to go out to eat so that gave us a little more time. The kids got there around 5 and we had a group photo in the entryway and gave them all hugs and said our goodbyes. The directors wanted to see us off to the airport so they came with us. We had all our luggage in the back of the van so there were less seats so we also had to take a cab for the rest of us. We got to the airport way early - hardly anyone was in there. We couldn't even check in - there wasn't anyone at the ticket counter. But better earlly than late and we were the first ones to check in once the ticket person got there. We gathered in a circle with our team, Lily and the two directors and Lily translated as we thanked them for welcoming us in and told them how much we appreciated how loving they are to the kids, how we know they are being so well taken care of and that makes it easier to go home knowing they are in good hands. They thanked us for coming such a long way to love on their kids and for being so loving with each one of them. And for the gifts. It was really sweet. They gave us hugs and left. And we headed through security to our terminal. Our flight out was thankfully much smoother than the one on the way there - which was good for all of us. Sammye was feeling better - not great but better. And she did ok on the flight. We got to Beijing and ate a late meal at McDonald's. I don't even like McDonald's back home but I tell ya what - it hit the spot after so much chinese food. I got a burger and man, those pickles tasted good. I also got fries with ketchup and a strawberry sunday. Yummy!!!! Then we all went to recheck into that hotel we stayed at the first 2 nights and we crashed. It was a long day filled with lots of emotions and activities. It was hard to say goodbye to those kiddos - I miss them already. And am praying my photos can be recovered off my laptop cause there are so many great ones that were on there. Thankfully I had saved a lot of my favorites onto a memory card and all the other team members took pictures too - so either way - I will still have some great shots.


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